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As we are coming out of Memorial Day, I thought this would be a good time to update my blog. This is not a day about a day off, picnics, the beach etc. But a day to remember those that lost their lives for our freedom. (Also to support the families of those that have lost their loved ones).

It seems I have accomplished a lot this month, though it also flew by too quickly. Living in Virginia, we are a state that gets to see all four seasons in their entirety. Spring and summer are my favorite seasons.

This year, I spent the month taking care of last year’s problems in my backyard. We had a Gazebo that I had spent the entire spring and summer trying to repair from being damaged by the snow. IT IS GONE! A new one has been installed. Remnants of the old one are now turning into a pergola. (A nice surprise from something destroyed.) Also we had struggled with our above ground pool for the last two seasons after putting it on chlorine. After a conversion process, it is no longer on chlorine and I am crossing my fingers because it appears that, so far so good. I have one remaining section of the fence that is being replaced this week, so I am ready for the summer to begin! My herb garden is coming along nicely as well. I am trying some new things this year, so I will keep you posted on how that goes.

I have spent some time “Reflecting” this month. Mother’s Day was a lovely day this year and I could not help but to remember my Mom. Also her birthday is coming up (May 30^th). It was also wonderful to see my daughter celebrate her first Mother’s Day with Jaselyn.

Honestly in looking back over the last few years, I believe I can finally say, “I am in a good spot!” So much has occurred over the years, it is so nice to see things settle down. For the first time in a long time it feels that everything has a “Natural flow” to it. Does this mean that I am all caught up on my projects? NO, I don’t think that will ever happen. Just a timeframe that I really enjoy what I do. I am also looking forward to a couple of new things coming up.

One of my biggest concerns now is my Siberian Husky “Sasha” as she ages. She will soon turn 14 years old and her hips are giving out on her. Though she caught her second wind when Jaselyn was born, her age is catching up with her.

I do want to talk about those that contact me for “Same day” appointments. By all means, you may continue to do so. However, I can only seem to accommodate this 75% of the time. A lot of this is due to the fact that I am working with varying time zones. Also a lot of people set their appointments a day or two in advance, therefore my day may already be booked up. Either way, I do try to work you in the same day if you request it. (And yes, I had a couple of clients that threw a fit that I couldn’t get to them right then.)

“Same day” appointments in person can be tricky. Local readings are done at a venue, so if I have someone move the time or postpone then yes I can get you in. For those that are seeking a reading locally, I can generally accommodate this on a couple of days notice. (There again, it depends on the venue that I am using.)

Email readings remain the same; I can generally honor these within a 24-hour turnaround. It is rare, but every now and then I will get backed up on these. If that is the case, you will generally hear from me.

I have had a few that have emailed me about my living situation. It appears that several have daughters that live at home that are now expecting. I have to admit when I got the news of my daughter’s pregnancy I was a little overwhelmed on what all needed to be done in our home and with thoughts of baby stuff everywhere. And yes, there is baby stuff everywhere. What you will find is once they are born; you would not have it any other way!

The first few weeks you can expect to help out around the clock. Newborns never sleep when you would like them to. (I am sure you remember this.) Next, I don’t “Raise” Jaselyn, and that is how these emails are being presented to me….How will you raise a grandchild? I “Babysit” Jaselyn. This means when her Mom gets home I am HANDS OFF. Unless I want to snatch her up to play, or watch her while her Mom showers, I do nothing. The other big thing….I don’t give unwanted advice! I am fully confident in my daughter’s parenting abilities, and she is truly an amazing Mother. I am on “Standby” for questions or if she wants to talk. (I didn’t want someone to tell me how to raise her, so I am sure she feels the same!) So remember that! Be there for them when they need you, other than that, it looks like everything just feel into place. No big secrets, just working together to get her on a schedule.

Just because they are under your roof does NOT mean you have a child to raise. You become a Grandma, and cherish every moment of it. I am Jaselyn’s “Mimi” and love every minute of it. ( My husband and I actually lived with my Grandmother when my daughter was born. ) Things will ALWAYS work out. I am very blessed to be able to run my business, have a personal life, and both of them in my life as well.

In other news, my 800# on my website has changed! (Same company and same rate, just a new number). A pain yes, but nothing that could be prevented. As always, local events and special rates go up on Twitter, and you can also follow me on Facebook. Horoscopes will post to my website on June 1^st. So until next time…

Monday, October 21, 2013

October 2013 "Rants & Raves"

So October is here, and we are under the full moon. Funny, fall is not my favorite season, but so far I have really enjoyed it. I have actually enjoyed watching the leaves change and the cool evenings. Besides, this is the month of Halloween, my absolute FAVORITE!

Now for the bad news…. This is just the beginning of Mercury Retrograde. (October 21^st to November 10^th). What can I say about this one? It is going to be a doozie! Upcoming projects can prove to be difficult. Mechanically it will affect things. But the biggest problem that I can see is the “Emotional Plain” ahead. This time frame is REALLY going to bring the emotions out in almost everyone, both good and bad. This is one of those cases that the only way out is to just get through it. However, if you are aware of it, it may make things a “Little” easier.

It seems I have been in a complete whirlwind this entire month. It has been one project after another, including my daughter’s baby shower last weekend. (That was totally awesome by the way!) We have just found out that baby Jaselyn is small and breech. Though she is not due until November 18^th, another ultrasound will take place on Halloween. (Let me know what you think on a due date, I have said all along its November 5^th.).

My paranormal team CVAPI, also spent some time filming with our local news station WRIC Channel 8. (A big thanks to the Byrd Theatre and Wrexham Hall!) They will begin plugging the story the day before Halloween and it will air in 2 or 3 parts the day, night and evening of Halloween. I had a really great time working with them. For those of you out of the area, part of the story will go up on their website and I will post the links.

October is not over yet! Next Sunday, October 27^th at 3PM, you can look for Ghost Hunting 101, here locally in Chester. (All of the information will be posted tomorrow on CVAPI’s website.) This is always a big hit, and fills up REALLY quick! If your local don't forget to join

us at Central Virginia Psychic Development & Paranormal Research.

What else is coming up? I have two meetings this coming week for new projects. Both have to due with the psychic realm and the paranormal field. I hope to be able to provide updates on this soon.

I’m also in discussions about my next big trip. It looks like this will occur in the first quarter of the year. NEW ORLEANS! I’m so flipping excited about this I can’t stand it! This has been on my list of places to visit for years!

Part of my month has also consisted of hiring a new CPA (as mine of many years retired). And, setting up a new computer system. Yes, after many years of being in business I am amazed at how things have expanded. Though I started working part time as a psychic to the public in 2001, my website launched as a three page site in 2006.

I have also taken some “Still time” to reflect upon some things. As in “where you were then and where you are now”. (I recommend this to everyone by the way.) Last October, was the beginning of the deterioration of my Mother’s health with breast cancer and two broken feet. That seemed to set the pace for four of the worst months I think I have had in my entire life. Looking back I am so glad that is behind me now! I am in a wonderful spot right now and continuing to move forward.

As of now, I am playing the month of November by ear. As I mentioned above, I have new projects that are in the making, family coming in from Florida, a baby arriving, a follow up to Tarot Card Workshop, and paranormal investigations. A quick trip upcoming? It appears so!

When is the best time to get a psychic reading? Two to two….2PM EST to 2AM EST. Psychic readings still come before everything else. Follow me on Facebook or Twitter for when I am available at the local level and any upcoming specials. On that note, regarding the social networks…. I get a TREMENDOUS amount of emails on all of them. In the event that you have not heard back from me PLEASE email me directly at Jackie@ms-swami.com I don’t intentionally avoid anyone, but sometimes emails are overlooked on the networks!

Until next time….HAPPY HALLOWEEN!