Lets start with those who are single. Why are you stressing over this? I find it perfectly normal for those that are single to show some anxiety on Valentine's day. Possibly because you are feeling vulnerable or it is the one day of the year that you feel alone. There is the key....it is ONE day of the year!
So for all of you single folks out there lets go over the do's and don'ts:
DO...
Treat yourself. This can be by going out with friends, picking up something you have been wanting, or expanding your horizons into meeting new people.
DO NOT...
Pick up the phone and call an ex! Remember, they are in your past for a REASON. There is no need to reopen that can of worms!
ADVICE...
This is one day of the year and you WILL survive! If you find yourself sitting around feeling lonely, remember this. "If you CANNOT be happy with yourself, you will NEVER make someone else happy".
Now lets move on to those that are seeing someone or are currently in a fairly new relationship. First and foremost, let your anxiety go! Here is where I see a lot of anticipation on what the other person expects. Let go and have fun.
DO...
Recognize that special someone as your Valentine. This has nothing to do with money and the simple things in life will score you BIG brownie points. It is not always about the gift.
DO NOT...
Play Valentine's Day down. It IS a big deal.
ADVICE...
Valentine's Day is the perfect "Excuse" to take things to the next level. This does not have to be an engagement. A simple commitment or taking the time in expressing what you feel will go a long way.
Finally on to those that are involved in a long term relationship. Yes, you still have to recognize Valentine's Day! Though you may have the perfect relationship, it is still important to remind them how important they are to you.
DO...
Apply every effort to do something special, even if you have been together for twenty years. It is always nice to hear that you still care.
DO NOT...
Blow it off. Even if you are in a holding pattern of not celebrating Valentine's Day, break that routine!
ADVICE...
You may feel that you already have them, but NEVER forget how important it is to KEEP them!
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY EVERYONE!
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Until next time...
