Jackie Tomlin is a psychic, paranormal investigator, Reiki Master, published author, content creator and radio talent. Located in Virginia and the founder of Central Virginia Paranormal Investigations known as CVAPI. Celebrating 18 years on her website, she loves her job tremendously. Visit her main website at http://www.JackieTomlin.com
Monday, July 28, 2014
Tuesday, July 1, 2014
Sunday, June 29, 2014
The "Reality" of Reality TV
This is a topic that I have been meaning to discuss for a
while now and will probably publish this to both of my blogs. In filming three separate episodes for
different shows, there appears to be a lot that the general public is not aware
of. The next thing I want to discuss is
the “Bashers” of psychic television, paranormal television, and Reality TV in
general.
The first thing I want to start by saying, is what you see
on TV, actually took days to film. So
what you are actually viewing is the highlights of what was filmed. “Reality” TV, means that they are real
people, (or real families), they are not actresses or actors.
You will also hear people state that Reality TV is
scripted. Some of it is, but what does
that mean? Let me see if I can give you
an example. Lets say production has
asked me to meet up with these 3 people, at this restaurant, and
discuss this topic. That is
about as scripted as it gets.
Production will film it, and they will use what they see fit, no one is
reading from an actual script. Now,
also notice that the 3 people I am meeting were filmed coming in. That is because they were met up the road
and each has their mics (microphones) on.
Now speaking of microphones. Do you ever notice on shows were they “run into” someone? They have on microphones and yes, you can
tell. (Some shows do not.) I can tell you that you will not be filmed
for National Television and NOT sign a consent form to be on a show.
An exception to the rule of “Scripted” would be any show
filmed that use re-enactments. These
are actual people stating their stories, but actresses and actors do the
re-enactment part reading from an actual script that production has provided. It also may be a set and not the actual
location to which they are discussing.
Production companies like to use a neat trick called the
“Voice Overlay”. What does this
mean? Let me give you an example. Lets say, in watching a show, you heard me
say “this”. That was indeed my
voice you heard, but NOT in that particular conversation. This could have been filmed two days prior in a totally different
conversation. How can you tell? Because you won’t see me on TV saying
it. It will be my voice with another
scene.
After the episode has gone through several edits, who has
the final say? The Network. They are the final decision on what is
aired. What are they looking for? Ratings.
So why do people watch Reality TV? Because they LIKE it!
They like the people, the families, the subject matter, story line, or what they represent. It is known as “Entertainment”. Why do the “Bashers” watch it? Because they need a life. With all the causes that they could
represent to do some good in the world, this is what they have dedicated their
time to in hopes of recognition.
However, I am sure that the actual Networks are grateful for
them boosting their ratings. Any
Network can see the number of dedicated fans out weighs the “Haters” of the
show by far.
A little off the topic here, but I also know someone who has
their story done into a Lifetime Movie.
(Notice it says “BASED ON a true story.”)
In the last 3 months, several different individuals have
contacted me about people “Bashing” popular psychics on television as well as
paranormal shows. These “Bashers” are
nothing more than “Glorified Stalkers” that are seeking a following. Some have dedicated websites to support
their beliefs and some have fallen so far off their rockers that they have even
self publish books on different Reality series. These idiots have contacted me before as well as people I know.
This is when I hear the famous phrase of “I KNOW FOR A
FACT….” This is also followed by: (from
me)
“Do you know these people personally?” NO
“Have you ever met these people?” NO
“Where you there when it happened?” NO
“Where you there when it was filmed?” NO
“Did production acknowledge you or ask you to be on
TV?” NO
(hmmmmm…..all very interesting.)
Next will come, “I HAVE INTERVIEWED THEIR FAMILY AND
FRIENDS”. Really? Because you are unable to validate any of it
by stating it is “Confidential”. Well I
can tell you what IS indeed “Confidential”.
The contract between the person filming and the production company as to
what can be discussed. (One would not
think it would take a rocket scientist to figure that out.) So why do people with television appearances
refuse to answer to these people?
Because they don’t HAVE to and who are they anyway?
To anyone in the news field, that will actually give these
idiots the time of day, I would like to suggest that you fire your researcher,
because you have now tainted your own credibility. These people have dedicated their time and energy to “EXPOSE or
INVESTIGATE” one thing only and that is TELEVISION……Seriously? (Obviously their parents never taught them
not to believe everything they see on TV.)
To those that appear on these shows, my hats off to you for
taking the high road! You are doing
something right! (In all honesty, I
watch very little psychic and paranormal television, but do watch other reality
shows.)
To the “Bashers” if ANY of you EVER contact me again, I will
do nothing more than refer you right back to this blog. The very idea that you are “investigating or
exposing” something seen on television is ABSURD. The only thing you are doing is publicly stalking people. I would
also like to lend some advice to those that hate Reality TV……TURN THE
CHANNEL!!!
Wednesday, June 25, 2014
June 2014 "Rants & Raves"
Welcoming the month of June and the first day of summer hit
on the 21st. (My favorite
season of the year!) Today I am
celebrating 8 years on my website. It
is hard to believe that 8 years ago, it actually launched as a 3 to 5 page
site. So, for the remainder of the
month, one-hour phone readings for $98 and the Reiki course remains on sale,
with an additional discount to groups of 4 or more. (Email me, for an appointment for a one-hour reading.)
I can say that June has been a rather productive month as
far as me getting some things done that I had been putting off. My daughter and I have also really enjoyed
having Jaselyn outside and spending some pool time with her.
I do have an issue that I want to address this month. That pertains to the bashing of psychics and
the paranormal and a few other things on television. I have a LOT to say about this so I plan to do so on a separate
blog.
Live readings have been put on hold until I find another
local venue. As an alternative, you may
want to check into hosting a Psychic Party.
I have run into some problems with scheduling appointments
in advance. I am in Virginia and in
the Eastern Time Zone. Understandably,
a lot of you are in a different time zones.
Though I express this when setting the appointment, you can generally go
to “Google” to find the time zone
conversion. If you are having a problem
with this PLEASE just let me know.
I have a lot of writing to get done, and just waiting for
that notion to strike me. I actually
came across something I began a few years back that I was really impressed
with. The problem appears to be in
finding the time to do so.
I do get a lot of questions on Reiki and will see if I can
give you a brief summary of it. It
pertains to “Energy healing”. Learning
the “Chakras” (the energy fields), and
how to align them. It is also used for
the “Greater good”, meaning the intent is to heal or relieve pain in the areas
needed. Will it cure things? NO.
It is wonderful for pain management, or centering and grounding yourself. If you have any questions or anything you
would like to discuss, don’t hesitate to email me.
Mercury Retrograde ends on July 1st. I have several varying reports of some that
this retrograde has hit them hard, to some that say it has not been that
bad. Either way, you are coming up on
the end of it. The next Retrograde will
hit October 4th to October 25th. You can always find these dates on my
website under the Free Horoscopes, as well as the traits of the zodiac and
compatibility.
The month of July, it is all about new beginnings and
getting things done!
Now to answer the most popular question that I get:
What do people ask you when they call?
-
Love Life (Most popular) Separation or divorce, long term or
short terms, if someone is coming in their love life, are things ending,
infidelity, and just about anything pertaining to love.
-
Career – Have they chosen the right career, job changes, new
jobs, searching for a job, self-employed, problems at work, income, seminars
and conventions, and anything pertaining to their career.
-
Money - lack of,
investments and purchases, the sale of home or property, residential moves,
income potential, what the future holds, loans, those that have borrowed from
them, etc.
-
Family & Friends – relationship problems, trust issues,
when will they get together, vacations, etc.
-
Education – If they have chosen the right path, when they will
return, funding, college, etc.
-
Missing – persons, pets and items. (More on this below.)
That is not everything obviously, but that will give you a
general idea. My clients come from all
over and all walks of life.
With one of my television appearances being on the Animal
Planet, I really want to stress that I am NOT a “Pet Psychic”. NO ONE can read your pet better than
you. However, I am good at locating
them when missing and have done so many times for my friends and clients. In regards to “Missing persons”, I do NOT
get involved unless a family member or a detective directly contacts me. (I also do not charge for this.) And of course, I have a mouthful to say
about psychics that do jump in the middle of an open investigation.
Sunday, June 1, 2014
Tuesday, May 27, 2014
May 2014 "Rants & Raves"
As we are coming out of Memorial Day, I thought this would
be a good time to update my blog. This
is not a day about a day off, picnics, the beach etc. But a day to remember those that lost their lives for our
freedom. (Also to support the families
of those that have lost their loved ones).
It seems I have accomplished a lot this month, though it
also flew by too quickly. Living in
Virginia, we are a state that gets to see all four seasons in their
entirety. Spring and summer are my
favorite seasons.
This year, I spent the month taking care of last year’s
problems in my backyard. We had a
Gazebo that I had spent the entire spring and summer trying to repair from
being damaged by the snow. IT IS
GONE! A new one has been
installed. Remnants of the old one are
now turning into a pergola. (A nice
surprise from something destroyed.)
Also we had struggled with our above ground pool for the last two
seasons after putting it on chlorine.
After a conversion process, it is no longer on chlorine and I am crossing
my fingers because it appears that, so far so good. I have one remaining section of the fence that is being replaced
this week, so I am ready for the summer to begin! My herb garden is coming along nicely as well. I am trying some new things this year, so I
will keep you posted on how that goes.
I have spent some time “Reflecting” this month. Mother’s Day was a lovely day this year and
I could not help but to remember my Mom.
Also her birthday is coming up (May 30th). It was also wonderful to see my daughter
celebrate her first Mother’s Day with Jaselyn.
Honestly in looking back over the last few years, I believe
I can finally say, “I am in a good spot!”
So much has occurred over the years, it is so nice to see things settle
down. For the first time in a long time
it feels that everything has a “Natural flow” to it. Does this mean that I am all caught up on my projects? NO, I don’t think that will ever happen. Just a timeframe that I really enjoy what I
do. I am also looking forward to a
couple of new things coming up.
One of my biggest concerns now is my Siberian Husky “Sasha”
as she ages. She will soon turn 14
years old and her hips are giving out on her.
Though she caught her second wind when Jaselyn was born, her age is
catching up with her.
I do want to talk about those that contact me for “Same day”
appointments. By all means, you may
continue to do so. However, I can only
seem to accommodate this 75% of the time.
A lot of this is due to the fact that I am working with varying time
zones. Also a lot of people set their
appointments a day or two in advance, therefore my day may already be booked
up. Either way, I do try to work you in
the same day if you request it. (And
yes, I had a couple of clients that threw a fit that I couldn’t get to them
right then.)
“Same day” appointments in person can be tricky. Local readings are done at a venue, so if I
have someone move the time or postpone then yes I can get you in. For those that are seeking a reading
locally, I can generally accommodate this on a couple of days notice. (There again, it depends on the venue that I
am using.)
Email readings remain the same; I can generally honor these
within a 24-hour turnaround. It is
rare, but every now and then I will get backed up on these. If that is the case, you will generally hear
from me.
I have had a few that have emailed me about my living
situation. It appears that several have
daughters that live at home that are now expecting. I have to admit when I got the news of my daughter’s pregnancy I
was a little overwhelmed on what all needed to be done in our home and with
thoughts of baby stuff everywhere. And
yes, there is baby stuff everywhere. What
you will find is once they are born; you would not have it any other way!
The first few weeks you can expect to help out around the
clock. Newborns never sleep when you
would like them to. (I am sure you
remember this.) Next, I don’t “Raise”
Jaselyn, and that is how these emails are being presented to me….How will you
raise a grandchild? I “Babysit”
Jaselyn. This means when her Mom gets
home I am HANDS OFF. Unless I want to
snatch her up to play, or watch her while her Mom showers, I do nothing. The other big thing….I don’t give unwanted
advice! I am fully confident in my daughter’s
parenting abilities, and she is truly an amazing Mother. I am on “Standby” for questions or if she
wants to talk. (I didn’t want someone
to tell me how to raise her, so I am sure she feels the same!) So remember that! Be there for them when they need you, other than that, it looks
like everything just feel into place.
No big secrets, just working together to get her on a schedule.
Just because they are under your roof does NOT mean you have
a child to raise. You become a Grandma,
and cherish every moment of it. I am
Jaselyn’s “Mimi” and love every minute of it. ( My husband and I actually lived
with my Grandmother when my daughter was born. ) Things will ALWAYS work out. I am very blessed to be able to run my
business, have a personal life, and both of them in my life as well.
In other news, my 800# on my website has changed! (Same company and same rate, just a new
number). A pain yes, but nothing that
could be prevented. As always, local
events and special rates go up on Twitter, and you can also follow me on
Facebook. Horoscopes will post to my
website on June 1st. So
until next time…
Thursday, May 1, 2014
800# For Psychic Readings has changed
Effective today, May 1st, the 800# for psychic readings has changed. The price for psychic readings remains the same as well as the extension. The new phone number is:
1-800-685-7914
Ext. 43817
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