Showing posts with label Central VA Paranormal Investigations. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Central VA Paranormal Investigations. Show all posts

Sunday, June 29, 2014

The "Reality" of Reality TV

This is a topic that I have been meaning to discuss for a while now and will probably publish this to both of my blogs.  In filming three separate episodes for different shows, there appears to be a lot that the general public is not aware of.  The next thing I want to discuss is the “Bashers” of psychic television, paranormal television, and Reality TV in general.

The first thing I want to start by saying, is what you see on TV, actually took days to film.  So what you are actually viewing is the highlights of what was filmed.  “Reality” TV, means that they are real people, (or real families), they are not actresses or actors.

You will also hear people state that Reality TV is scripted.  Some of it is, but what does that mean?  Let me see if I can give you an example.  Lets say production has asked me to meet up with these 3 people, at this restaurant, and discuss this topic.  That is about as scripted as it gets.  Production will film it, and they will use what they see fit, no one is reading from an actual script.  Now, also notice that the 3 people I am meeting were filmed coming in.  That is because they were met up the road and each has their mics (microphones) on.

Now speaking of microphones.  Do you ever notice on shows were they “run into” someone?  They have on microphones and yes, you can tell.  (Some shows do not.)  I can tell you that you will not be filmed for National Television and NOT sign a consent form to be on a show.

An exception to the rule of “Scripted” would be any show filmed that use re-enactments.  These are actual people stating their stories, but actresses and actors do the re-enactment part reading from an actual script that production has provided.  It also may be a set and not the actual location to which they are discussing.

Production companies like to use a neat trick called the “Voice Overlay”.  What does this mean?  Let me give you an example.  Lets say, in watching a show, you heard me say “this”.  That was indeed my voice you heard, but NOT in that particular conversation.  This could have been  filmed two days prior in a totally different conversation.  How can you tell?  Because you won’t see me on TV saying it.  It will be my voice with another scene.

After the episode has gone through several edits, who has the final say?  The Network.  They are the final decision on what is aired.  What are they looking for?  Ratings. 

So why do people watch Reality TV?  Because they LIKE it!  They like the people, the families, the subject matter, story line,  or what they represent.  It is known as “Entertainment”.  Why do the “Bashers” watch it?  Because they need a life.  With all the causes that they could represent to do some good in the world, this is what they have dedicated their time to in hopes of recognition.

However, I am sure that the actual Networks are grateful for them boosting their ratings.  Any Network can see the number of dedicated fans out weighs the “Haters” of the show by far.

A little off the topic here, but I also know someone who has their story done into a Lifetime Movie.  (Notice it says “BASED ON a true story.”)

In the last 3 months, several different individuals have contacted me about people “Bashing” popular psychics on television as well as paranormal shows.  These “Bashers” are nothing more than “Glorified Stalkers” that are seeking a following.  Some have dedicated websites to support their beliefs and some have fallen so far off their rockers that they have even self publish books on different Reality series.  These idiots have contacted me before as well as people I know.

This is when I hear the famous phrase of “I KNOW FOR A FACT….”  This is also followed by: (from me)
“Do you know these people personally?”  NO
“Have you ever met these people?”  NO
“Where you there when it happened?”  NO
“Where you there when it was filmed?”  NO
“Did production acknowledge you or ask you to be on TV?”  NO
(hmmmmm…..all very interesting.)

Next will come, “I HAVE INTERVIEWED THEIR FAMILY AND FRIENDS”.  Really?  Because you are unable to validate any of it by stating it is “Confidential”.  Well I can tell you what IS indeed “Confidential”.  The contract between the person filming and the production company as to what can be discussed.  (One would not think it would take a rocket scientist to figure that out.)  So why do people with television appearances refuse to answer to these people?  Because they don’t HAVE to and who are they anyway?

To anyone in the news field, that will actually give these idiots the time of day, I would like to suggest that you fire your researcher, because you have now tainted your own credibility.  These people have dedicated their time and energy to “EXPOSE or INVESTIGATE” one thing only and that is TELEVISION……Seriously?  (Obviously their parents never taught them not to believe everything they see on TV.) 

To those that appear on these shows, my hats off to you for taking the high road!  You are doing something right!  (In all honesty, I watch very little psychic and paranormal television, but do watch other reality shows.) 

To the “Bashers” if ANY of you EVER contact me again, I will do nothing more than refer you right back to this blog.  The very idea that you are “investigating or exposing” something seen on television is ABSURD.  The only thing you are doing is publicly stalking people. I would also like to lend some advice to those that hate Reality TV……TURN THE CHANNEL!!!


Thursday, March 27, 2014

March 2014 "Rants & Raves"

As I write this it is hard to believe that we are coming up on the end of the first quarter for 2014.  Time is flying by!  It has been wonderful to welcome spring though the weather here in Virginia does not seem to want to cooperate.  I am beginning to think that Mother Nature is bipolar. 

I am actually anxious about beginning to work in the yard.  Once again, I am revamping the entire back yard.  (A never-ending project around here.)  I am also ready to get my herb and lavender garden underway.  I have a friend with a greenhouse who starts my seeds for me.  (Cheating)



March has been a busy month of working my website, a couple of events as well as accounting.  Accounting, yes I hate it!  However I am more than pleased with the progress that has been made considering tax day is right around the corner. 

I have to admit that my YouTube channel has been neglected this month.  Time will permit for that soon.  The same as a meeting for CentralVirginia Psychic Development & Paranormal Research, I ran out of month!  (A paranormal meeting is in the works for the month of April.)

My spring newsletter went out this week.  As a matter of fact, all week it seems.  I generally send out four a year, one each quarter.  I have to admit as the subscriber’s list grows I am torn about continuing to send this out verses publishing it here or on my website.  I have many that look forward to it and many that will inquire or state that they did not receive it.  This is a continuing battle with the spam filters, so I am now looking at this option instead.

Though I have offered Psychic Development to groups, I have recently started this as a phone session and seeing a lot of success.  I do want to remind you that this is done by appointment only.  They generally take an hour and a half, but I ask that you set aside two hours.  The first part is your assessment, while the second part is on development.

Events for the month of April are filling up quickly.  I will  continue to be at the Aqua Lounge in Shockoe Bottom in downtown Richmond the first and third Tuesday of the month.  I am also looking forward to working the Spring Fling Sunday April 6th in Chester.  There I will have the Reiki Course as well as offer psychic readings.  Other vendors there will include Thirty-one, Jamberry Nails, Orgami Owl, Avon, Tupperware, Scentsy, It Works, and Tastefully Simple.  This should be a LOT of fun.

(Check my Events calendar through the month as things are added or dates are changed.)

Thank you to those that follow me on Twitter.  I am still a little new to “Tweeting” but have enjoyed it.  I will continue to put specials on there for select weekends.  Of course, you can always find me on Facebook.

Now to answer some questions:

Do you use an agency?
No I don’t and never have. So please don’t have them contact me.  I prefer working with people one on one for events or appearances.  An agency will tend to keep me on the road more than what I would like or keep up with.

Do you ever do readings for other psychics?
Yes.  Psychics have a hard time reading for themselves.  That applies to me as well.  We only get very little information verses the whole picture.  It is very common for us to trade readings from time to time.

Do you have any new projects in the works?
Yes.  This has to do with the psychic realm of things and will be ongoing for the next few months.  There will be more to come on this at a later date.

Have you ever met someone that you did not want to read for?
Not really.  I have met negative people as we all do from time to time.  Some drain me more than others and I think that is common.

Do you plan to keep your free email follow up?
I am trying.  As long as I can keep up, yes, it will stay in place.

I have several email addresses for you.  What is the best to reach you on?
Jackie@ms-swami.com  this is my primary address and checked most often.

What exactly is Reiki?
I am getting this a LOT.  It is also known as the “Healing Touch” or “Energy Healing”.  Hang in there with me as I plan to write a blog on nothing but the topic of Reiki.

What is your personal opinion on horoscopes?
Coming from someone that writes them once a month, I find that they are fun.  They are a generalized measurement of time for each zodiac sign.  Even if published daily I don’t find that they carry a lot of weight.  Just fun.  It is funny though, those that don’t believe in psychic abilities or the paranormal, I find are usually the ones that read their horoscopes every morning.

How is Jaselyn?
Wonderful, a delight, a shear joy, and a breath of fresh air!  She has a really great personality and learns something new almost daily.  Her and her mom, make everything I do ….WORTH IT!

Until next time...







Saturday, February 22, 2014

Will my case be on TV?

The immediate response to this question would be NO.

With so many paranormal shows, and paranormal specials appearing, this is now becoming a common question.  Our intention and focus is on YOUR case, not television.  On the flip side, we have also upped our screening process on cases to make sure that it is not YOUR intention.

I want to take the time to clarify some of this process.  We are indeed contacted by production companies on varying occasions throughout the year.  In addition, we have had homeowner’s submit their own cases to various shows.  So let me see if I can give you some insight as to how this works.

Let me give you an example of some of the questions a production company will approach us with:

-         Do you have a location with a history of….
-         Has anyone ever reported …
-         Have you had an investigation with….
-         Have you ever been in a location like…
-         Do you have a family that has experienced …
-         Do you have any cases that were not paranormal because of …
-         Do you have any footage of…
-         Do you have any families that need help with….
-         Have any families changed their lives because of …
-         Can you back the families claims with evidence of ….

That is just a short list to give you an idea of what we are asked on our end.  Now in the event that we have a case they are looking for, there are questions for the homeowner’s that may appear like this:

-         Are they comfortable with sharing their story?
-         Do they mind going on camera?
-         Are they looking for money?
-         Do they rent or own their home?
-         Will they allow production in their home?
-         Are they willing to travel?

On our end, we are looking at everything INCLUDING the production company that has contacted us:

-         Are they looking for the “worst of the worst” for ratings?
-         What have they produced before?
-         What kind of airtime are they looking at for this case?  (6 minutes or an hour?)
-         Have they ever produced anything with the paranormal before?  (That is a BIG deciding factor!)

In the event that we can make a match with all of these pieces, you will be contacted by either JACKIE or NIKKI.  (No one else portraying as CVAPI!)  Your information is NOT released to ANY production company unless we contact you first.  If you give us the go ahead for them to contact you directly then we will do so.  (For those that are submitting your own cases, we would appreciate the same in return.)

In reality, there is only a SMALL PERCENT that we can make a match to.  We have also had cases to which the homeowner has backed out of filming to which we are completely FINE with.  There is also no time limit as to when these cases occurred.  Recently we filmed our best case from 2009.  However, we have been asked before to return to the location for additional footage.

You may contact us through our website, or email us directly.  Jackie@cvapi.com or Nikki@cvapi.com.


Monday, January 20, 2014

January 2014 "Rants & Raves"

Happy New Year to you all!  I am soooo glad the holidays are over!  I have spoke to a few of you that are kicking off the New Year with some New Year’s Resolutions and I think that is great!  Just keep them realistic so you don’t set yourself up for failure.

Remember that 2014 is all about “Change”.  If you continue to do the same thing you will get the same results.  It only takes a few small changes in your daily routine believe it or not, to change up everything.  Change your route to work, location of your grocery store, a different banking branch or a different route home.  You will be surprised what this can result in.  I know a few of you are beginning Reiki, Yoga, Meditation and workouts, that is wonderful, now stick with it!

This first of the year for me, has started with everything mechanical breaking down.  (Except the computers, I went through that back in August.)  Could it be because we have two Super Moons in this month of January?  I think I will choose to look at it as “Clearing out the old”.  I have also started the year with adding to my workout routine thanks to a friend of mine.  This has REALLY been a challenge for me.  I dropped two sizes at the end of last year, and that has given me the incentive to “Step it up”.  No special secrets, just eating right, working out and LOTS of water.

A couple of days ago, I was asked a question on Twitter of what professional psychic that I would recommend.  Though I have met several of the popular ones, I have not personally had a reading with them, so I really don’t know.  It is true that we have a hard time reading for ourselves and often trade readings.  Unfortunately, the two that I would recommend have married and are no longer offering readings.  I have a hard time recommending anyone that has not read for me personally.  Although I do encourage that you seek more than one source.

The best time to catch me for a psychic reading is in the afternoon, and late evenings until the wee hours of the morning.  This is because I deal with so many varying time zones.  If you are local and seeking a reading in person, I do offer them from time to time in the Chester area.  Upcoming in February, I will also offer them at the Aqua Lounge located on Main Street in downtown Richmond. (Check my “Events” calendar on my website.)

The Tarot Card Workshop Part II, is schedule for Saturday Feb. 1st at 4PM in the conference room at the Econo Lodge in Chester, VA.  If you are interested in Part I, this will be offered online in Google Hangouts soon, so stay tuned.  You don’t have to be local for this.

For those that have asked me about Jaselyn, she is doing great and a real doll!  She will turn 2 months old this week.  The time is flying by!  Her mom has also returned to work.

A few of you emailed me in reference to a comment I made on my last blog about not giving a psychic your birthday.  I don’t believe in it!  I have yet to figure out “Why” they would need your birthday.  This will allow them to tune into your zodiac sign, to which they are bound to hit home with one of your traits.  This, along with several of my clients, have prompted me to do the video on Psychic Scams.  I have done a piece on this before, but I continue to hear from those that are out of thousands of dollars.



If you are on the social networks, be sure to look for me on Twitter, YouTube and Facebook.  Your free monthly horoscope will go up Feb. 1st.

Until next time…





Thursday, November 28, 2013

November 2013 "Rants & Raves"

Happy Thanksgiving to you all!  It is amazing how things can change in the small course of 12 months.  Last year for Thanksgiving, I found myself having a complete meltdown when realizing it would be my last Thanksgiving with my mother.  This year I find myself celebrating with my new Granddaughter!


Meet "Jaselyn Cassidy"  born Friday November 22nd at 1:30PM, 6 lbs 2 oz and 19.5 inches long.  Both her and her mother came home this past Monday and both are doing well.  She made it on the first day of Sagittarius, and is a blonde.  (My Mother's side of the family.) Skin tone?  We will have to wait and see.  My Mother's side are all dark complected from a long blood line of Cherokee and Italians.  My daughter however is fair complected and a dirty blonde.  (Though her color changes constantly due to cosmetology.)
Overall she is a really good baby and I could not be happier for both of them!

Prior to Jaselyn's birth, November has been a really busy month for me.  I was delighted to have the Virginia Historical Society contact me to participate in their new documentary "Virginia Voices".  This is currently still in the works and will be released later in 2014.  My daughter and I are currently working on another filming project that we will be able to release more at a later date.

Vlogs?  Video Blogs.... I have been approached by a few as to if this is something I will do.  To be honest, I am considering it.  Possibly the first of the year?  I do have a new computer system with a webcam so it is possible.  By the way, I am new to Windows 8, so if you have any tips or advice to lend, I am certainly open to it as I am a little dumbfounded by this operating system.

November for me has been a month of "Reconnecting".  By that I mean that I have seen family and friends that I have not seen in years!  It has been wonderful!

My new ad campaign launched in the month of November (a little delayed) and is doing well.  (Groupon user's look for me there!) Due to the filming projects and my daughter's pregnancy, my availability has been a little "off" to say the least.  Currently I am back on track and available tonight and through the weekend.  The best time for psychic readings remains 1PM to 1AM Eastern.  For random holiday specials, be sure to follow me on Twitter.  I will be running a normal schedule for the month of December for the exception of a quick day trip to North Carolina that I am most excited about!

Upcoming in December I hope to work in a "Meet & Greet" for Central Virginia Psychic Development & Paranormal Research.  Hopefully I will be able to due this without short notice.  This will be for like-minded people to come together and share what we would like to do in 2014.  I have many inquiries to the Part II, of the Tarot Card Workshop, and as of now, that will take place in late January.

At some point in December I plan to start revamping our website for CVAPI. (Central Virginia Paranormal Investigations).  I am currently seeking a volunteer that is fluent with YouTube in helping me get some of our older case files online.  If you are interested, please email me at Jackie@cvapi.com.

A lot of my month of December is preparing my final accounting for the year, so I will be spending a lot of time in my office.

Be sure to join me on Facebook as I post there often!  I am going to wrap this up with the number #12, handed down from my daughter from a facebook game, of 12 random facts that you may not know about me:

1.  I was a vegetarian for 7 years.
2.  I married in my senior year of high school.  (Married at 18, my daughter at 19, divorced at 20, and built        our home at 21).
3.  "Sasha" is my third husky and 13 1/2 years old.  I also have a soft spot for cats.  (We have two, one
     inside and one outside.)
4.  I rarely drink alcohol and when I do, the "Psychic senses" are more than wide open!
5.  I keep my social circle small because I HATE needless drama.
6.  Though I am a ghost hunter, I do not like closed in places (car window always cracked) and am scared
     of heights and reptiles.  (Yes, I hate frogs and blue tailed lizards may as well be the size of dragons!)
7.  I love to just pick up and "Go".  I am not much of a planner.  (A Sagittarius trait.)
8.  I am really into aromatherapy.   Lavender is my favorite scent and I grow my own.
9.  I LOVE to read and rarely take the time to do so.  I also had trouble learning to read as a child.
10.  I am really not that fond of chocolate and never have been.  (For the exception of chocolate pie!)
11.  I have ALWAYS thought that clowns are just creepy.
12.  I am 100% happy just being me!  :)

If you are traveling for the holidays, please be safe!

You can reach me directly at Jackie@ms-swami.com.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!




Friday, July 12, 2013

June and July 2013 "Rants & Raves"

Well once again I have let the entire month of June slip by me.  I need to get into the habit of when I remind myself to update the blog, to actually stop what I am doing and do so!  June seems like it went by really quick.  Although spring and summer are my favorite months, they tend to go by very quickly. Central Virginia Paranormal Investigations  (CVAPI) wrapped up another interesting case at the beginning of June.  Currently we are trying to get that website updated.
The last few weeks I have enjoyed hearing your stories about Reiki.  Those that have found what it really works well as well as the students that I currently have, and their stories about working on family and friends. ( I am currently due for a session on myself as we speak!)
From June 26th on up until July 20th, we fall under Mercury Retrograde.  What does this mean to you?  It is not the time to sign contracts or begin anything new.  This is a time frame were most will experience a high level of anxiety.  It is also the time frame to which you can expect the unexpected.  This particular retrograde has seemed to hit the "Family" zone pretty hard.  There are a lot of you that appear to be struggling with some type of family issue at this time.  Avoid the negativity as much as possible!  If you are the one feeling negative, then its time to fall down and regroup.  Though Retrograde ends on July 20th, it is common for the after effects to linger around for a couple of days.

Now, for a picture of July's exciting news:

"Meet Jaselyn Cassidy"
I usually hate ultrasound pictures but this one came out really clear.  "Jaselyn Cassidy" is a baby girl, and my grand-baby!  She will arrive in November.  She was very active during her ultrasound and likes to play with her hands.  Maybe a musician or a gymnast? 
My daughter and I are hoping to take a little time off to visit some family at the Georgia/Tennessee line while she can still travel soon.

Now onto some of the Q & A's:
How many readings do you do in a day?
Honestly it depends a lot on my availability.  Like any business some days are busier than others.  I also keep odd hours for my clients in the UK.
How do I get an email reading?
For any type of psychic reading visit my website.  Under the section of psychic readings you will find several options.  Some prefer to call now, others by appointment.  Email readings are always a popular option for privacy regarding spouses or while at work.  They are generally answered within 24 hours.
Will you ever be in my area?
It depends on your location.  Send me an email to Jackie@ms-swami.com
How do I become a member of your paranormal team?
Members and those selected for investigations come from our local Meetup group.  For those interested in ghost hunting in general, stay in touch with me as Ghost Hunting 101 is coming up!
Do you ever get burnt out on readings?
Like anything I guess sometimes I do.  I can only read but for so many before I have to take a break or a little time off.
Can I use one of your past articles?
I have no problem with this as long as you ask me first.  Currently I still publish at Examiner and a couple of other sites.  I own copyright on most of them, but some I have sold the copyright, so just ask so I can verify where it has been published!

My summer newsletter will go out soon!  If you wish to be added to the mailing list send me an email to Jackie@ms-swami.com.  Until next time...

Monday, May 21, 2012

May's Rants and Raves....

What a rough month it has been in the Tomlin household! I would almost swear we were under Retrogade! Unfortunately, my daughter and I have been through two back to back deaths of our friends this month, and hoping that things are now turning around on a more positive note. In addition, we have an abandoned construction job in the backyard, that I am happy to say, is now coming up on completion. (We have also had our Maine Coon a little under the weather.) I have had some emails regarding my new adventure with "Body wraps by Jackie", though my schedule has been tight this month, things are going well. If you are currently on a weight loss program, this is the way to go. For those that are seeking extra income, please feel free to contact me at www.ms-swami.com and I will email you some information. For actual before and after pictures you can visit my Facebook page for the body wraps. (If your local, we are having a wrap party this weekend in Sussex!) This week, brings back more of a "normal" schedule for me and psychic readings. And yes, I will be available during the holiday weekend. If you are local, we are planning an outing to the Midlothian Coal Mines this Saturday May 26th, at 4PM and hope you will join us. (The very first coal mines in the US, more information here.) I also have Live Psychic Readings coming up the first Saturday in June beginning at 11AM at Kahnee's Korner. (Check my Events page.)Though I haven't done a lot of radio lately, you can catch me live Monday June 4th, at 7PM EST on PARA-X. And of course CVAPI, (Central VA Paranormal Investigations)remains busy, with our latest investigation being released in a few days. In other news, I have OFFICIALLY pulled out of Sideline Cafe, local readings will be scheduled elsewhere. (Details coming soon!) Some of you out west, sent me photos of the eclipse yesterday, thank you very much. We were under clouds and I completely missed it! I have also recieved many warm wishes for my Mother, who by the way, has a birthday at the end of the month. (A Gemini!) I look for the remainder of the month to take a more positive turn. I intend to remain busy with my readings, finishing up my projects on the homefront, and I am actually thinking about a vertical herb garden...(Although my daughter considers that "Creating work") Now, for a couple of common questions.....My favorite color? Purple, always has been, since a child! My favorite food? I don't think I actually have a favorite, although I am partial to Italian and Seafood. My favorite place to visit? Old plantations and the beach! Look for me on Facebook and you can find me on Twitter. Wishing all of you a safe and joyful holiday weekend! More to come soon...